Wedding Planning Is Making Me Question a Friendship

One of my bridesmaids is also one of my closest friends, and I feel awful even writing this.

When I asked her to be in my wedding, I imagined we'd be planning together, sharing ideas, going dress shopping, and getting excited about everything. Not because I expected her to do work for me, but because that's how I always pictured this season of life.

Instead, she seems completely uninterested.

She took almost three weeks to respond about bridesmaid dresses. She rarely replies in the group chat. When she does, it's usually just a thumbs-up reaction. I've organized a few wedding-related get-togethers and she either couldn't make it or left early.

The thing is, she's not doing anything wrong.

She's still coming to the wedding. She agreed to be a bridesmaid. She's kind whenever we talk.

But I can't shake the feeling that I'm more invested in our friendship than she is.